Why ‘side-chicks’ remain in service– Benin locals

Some locals in Benin, the Edo State capital, have said that some males would continue to keep mistresses, popularly called ‘side chicks’, due to their viewed benefits and strong grip.

The respondents’ submission occurs from the growing reports of infidelity among guys, specifically celebs and the highly-placed in society.

Some guys who talked with the News Agency of Nigeria (NAN) on Friday in Benin declare that other halves may never ever have the ability to take on the side-chicks in regards to allure, attention to details and penchant for love.

Mr Ojefia King, a business owner, exposed that a lot of men have side-chicks for the enjoyable of it.

According to him, side-chicks, many times, do not need to expect anything other than trips and sex from a man, whether wed or single.

“Some side-chicks go after males since they are wealthy, while some others do it to meet their needs,” he said.

Likewise, Mr Larry Sideso, a disc jockey, stated that guys are attracted to side-chicks because they have less stress and are always loyal and understanding of their desires and requirements.

“I am wed and I have a side-chick; she understands her location, no crossing of limits.

“My spouse knows my side-chick.

“Like I stated earlier, everybody understands their place. I do not carry different girls. I simply have my better half and a side-chick.

“I like my wife so much. I won’t trade her for anything else, however my side-chick is only assisting,” he said.

Mrs Ivie Idolor, an instructor, stated that side-chicks were constantly responding to the call of nature for guys.

“If you study the production of males critically, you will see men have longer reproductive periods than ladies.

“A man can still fertilize a lady even at 75 years of age, but a female can’t deliver at such age.

“Thus, the sperms in a man can produce numerous kids, which just implies when God said dominate and replenish the earth specifically means guys’s responsibility to replicate double.

“Men can not assist it, that’s what hormones have programmed them to do. When a guy has actually had enough of his primary chick, he moves on and forgets about loving his main chick once again,” she said.

On his part, Mr Richard Amekpa, a designer, stated guys had side-chicks to get sexual complete satisfaction.

“Love, sex, care and love are extremely crucial in a relationship or marital relationship.

“If a spouse can not satisfy the hubby with that, he will definitely have somebody else that will take her function.

“Total attention is extremely essential to seeing the real appeal of a relationship.

“If a wife refuses to offer the spouse complete attention, she is certainly opening the door for a side-chick,” he said.

Mr Isreal Osamuyi, a clergy, advised men to update their wives to the requirement they appreciate in other women.

Osamuyi stated that most ladies hardly looked after themselves since they had one need or the other to look after.

“Women that are wed and have children always have one thousand and one duties to address.

“So, there is little or no time at all at all to purchase clothing, makeup and check out drinking bars or roam around with buddies.

“I am not in assistance of guys having side-chicks; but if I actually want to peep into their world by attempting to understand why, I think it’s purely because of insecurity,” he said. (NAN)