on her Instagram page, the mum of 3 stated her divorce from Mr. Danjuma made her seem like a failure.According to her, she blamed herself for not making a perfect marital relationship and for the errors they both made in their marriage. She stated she began to heal and understood that she wasn’t

a failure just because her marital relationship failed.She discussed that sometimes, people are much better off as good friends than enthusiasts.

The starlet likewise pointed out the significance of seeing an expert counselor when going through a divorce. She advised divorcees to eliminate the hate they might develop for their partners as it will only ruin them. Publishing the tweet above, she wrote;”I blamed myself for not making a best marital relationship, I blamed my self for both faults of ours till I started recovering then I understood I was not a failure.I hoped to God for assistance most significantly to forgive my self and him.Rather than hate the outcome of what was, I chose love and peace of mind for what

is. We both ain’t best and that is what makes us human. I dealt with the upsetting words from complete strangers and friends, the preconception and constant mockery without knowledge of what truly happened.God whispered I am with you which was it. My journey to finding me started and I never looked back. I came, I saw, I dominated, most notably I have discovered my lost identity.Healed, brought back, unprovoked, caring and blessed.

. #howcarolynagothergrooveback. thanks to @lanreolusola who spoke through the words in the Bible to help me find my way.Some of us are much better off as good friends than lovers.

It is okay to see an expert therapist, you ain’t mad you simply need information. It is ok to stop working and increase once again. Let God lead you. No hate but enjoy always. Accept your faults forgive the

other and carry on in peace.This is my first time discussing my divorce, not an easy journey, the majority of times very unpleasant moments specifically if you are a perfectionist and kids are included. Eliminate the hate it will only destroy you. If you are wondering how you will get economically trust

me you will, just remain focused and determined. Love without regrets.” ToriNG